Costumes & Role-Playing: Why You Need to Start Tonight
Karaz’s Shahrazad delves into the world of costumes, role-playing and infinite possibilities to open your eyes to the uncharted territory that is bound to take your sex life from good to fan-freakin-tastic!
Sex is a wonderful thing, but there’s much more that can be done to take that goodness to a “whole nother level”. Games, roleplaying and costumes can put a lot of fun into the bedroom dance, and not only be enjoyable but also deepen the love and attraction you and your partner feel towards one another.
Many couples think of creative ways to spice things up in the bedroom. Costumes and role-play, play an important part of that process because it allows you to keep things interesting, while living out fantasies. It creates a different kind of intimacy that will let you be vulnerable with your partner, and see them in a different, intensely desirable light.
Putting a costume on isn’t just for show. What it’s really meant for is stimulating the most important organ involved in sex…your brain. By sparking imagination, you end up creating a new adventure that will send you and your partner into a virtual world of sexy fun. Costumes are also a great way to get what you want, by using the outfit to encourage your partner to take on different roles. For example, if you’re a man and want your woman to be a bit more assertive in the bedroom… then have her dress up as a cop.
Costumes have the amazing ability to change you and your partner into different people. This doesn’t mean that there’s anything wrong with you or them…but instead of seeing her as the mother of your children or your wife, she’s now a nurse taking care of you. The same goes for you ladies… who doesn’t like a man in uniform to come and rescue them from that oh-so-dangerous scenario?
And since It’s harder to play pretend without props, costumes are a great way to give it all you’ve got without feeling embarrassed or shy. Bonus? If you really get into it…there are a million and one people you can be and places you can go in role-play. Every. Single. Night.
So start out slow. Do simple scenarios… if you’re the one that wants to be brave and push for it, then you take on the role first. Slowly, you can take it from there and as long as you keep an open mind, set some rules so you’re both always ok with whatever is going on and create a no-judgment zone… you’re in for worlds of fun.