I’m a female and it hurts when I have sex, even though it is not my first time. What can I do?
Sometimes sex hurts because you’re not well lubricated. Engage in foreplay, and try to slowly build up excitement so that your vagina can prepare by lubricating itself. But also, it’s important to use lube as natural lubrication is not always enough. Also, if you are tense or worried, your vaginal walls may tense up. So try to get in the mood and relax, and communicate your issue with your partner so that he can help you through it-making the sex much more enjoyable for the both of you.